Disagreeing Agreeably

Blogger Ken Keathley has written an excellent article: When Writing about Those with Whom You Disagree. His 3 rules of thumb:

1. Describe your opponent’s position in such a way that he can recognize it.
2. Know your opponent’s position well enough that you could argue it for him.
3. Write as if your opponent and you were going to dinner together after you finish.

Number 1 builds trust through not exaggerating or distorting. No straw men which are easily demolished.

Number 2 builds understanding through study, not to destroy but to be able to present the opposing view also.

Number 3 builds relationship while disagreeing on an issue.

Good stuff.