Running a Good Meeting

January 27, 2010

When I saw you last, you mentioned the “making meetings POP” idea that you were using to have Purpose, Outcomes, Process of meetings clear.  Could you send me any links or materials you have on that? Thanks for any resources you can pass on!

That’s what my friend Erik wrote me yesterday. I thought “That’s easy. I’ll send him a link to the blog post I wrote.” But the post wasn’t on this site. I found it in the drafts section, never published. So, I’ve finished it and here it is.

I run a lot of meetings. I sit in many more. Most of my days are spent in meetings.

A successful businessman once confided to me that he would no longer attend a meeting of our organization until we moved the focus of our meetings from discussion to decision. Fortunately, they were not my meetings, but his words continue to echo through my mind frequently when I’m in meetings.

Now, there are several types of meetings. We can assemble for discussion, for fellowship, for worship, for prayer, for parties… But it’s important to be clear about the purpose of the meeting, especially a business meeting.

Meetings are not leadership. But a good meeting can be an effective tool of leadership.

So, what makes “good meeting”?

Some online definitions of good. Some of my favorites in this context are:

  • effective. exerting force or influence
  • most suitable or right for a particular purpose

Some online definitions of meeting:

  • a formally arranged gathering
  • the social act of assembling for some common purpose

I’ve found a few resources that help me assemble colleagues together so that we exert force or influence in a way that is suitable for the particular purpose.

I’ve been greatly influenced by the article Make Your Meetings POP. When I prepare for a meeting, I think POP (Purpose, Outcome(s), Process). When I send a meeting invitation to others, the invitation is organized as Purpose, Outcome(s) and sometimes Process.

When we start the meeting, we review the purpose, outcome(s), and process. For a recent meeting, this went something like “The purpose of this time together is to be updated on the partnership plans and to address our questions so that we can make a decision. Outcomes will be a go/no-go decision to move ahead with the partnership and a better understanding of the staffing and funding needs that will require. The process we’ll follow is to hear from Doug and Mike on the latest developments, to hear from Mark (our potential partner organization) about why they see this partnership as beneficial to their organization, and to decide whether to pursue putting the partnership together.”

I’ve found that going through this process personally before the meeting sharpens my focus to execute the meeting well. Going through this at the beginning of the meeting sets the tone and focus of the meeting that significantly increases the productivity of our time together.

I still have much to learn. Another article with great ideas is How to Run a Meeting Like Google. Imagine being a part of 70 meetings a week! Some yet-to-be-learned skills outlined in this article are use data to avoid politics and stick to the clock.

Another good article is Why Most Meetings still Suck by Michael Hyatt.

I’m on the journey to better meetings. What ideas, tools, and resources have you found helpful?

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Email thoughts

January 23, 2010

I read a good article today. 11 Things to Consider Before You Send the Next Email.

Recently a friend sent an email that had some hard things that needed to be communicated. Email is typically not a good place for hard things, but my friend used a very creative idea.

He started his email with: Sorry for the robust nature of this email. I’d much rather have this discussion face-to-face, but given the timely nature of this issue, I felt it couldn’t wait. Here comes the truth. I’ll stop by your desks later to give you hugs of grace.

I don’t know how others received this, but for me, it worked!

11 Things to Consider Before You Send the Next Email

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Growing as a spokesperson

January 2, 2010

Here is a leadership idea I’ve found helpful. I facilitate a meeting twice each year for our leaders in technology from around the globe. One of the main focuses of these meetings is developing as leaders.
Our organization has adopted a leadership development framework. One of the roles of a leader is the spokesperson role.
At the [...]

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Merry Christmas from Keith & Kay

December 25, 2009

Kay and I wish you a very blessed and merry Christmas. We are in Mesquite, Texas (Dallas area). We woke up this morning to a white Christmas. We were sure surprised. Click here to see some photos…
So, have a great day celebrating Emmanuel: God with us.
I’m going in to eat breakfast with the family!

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Does social media work?

November 24, 2009

Does social media work? How can social media be harnessed for the Great Commission?
I just read an amazing story from two weeks ago.
November 9th: Jon Acuff, a copy writer in an IT department in Atlanta, explains how it began here in this original blogpost. God led him to start a project to raise $30,000 by [...]

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I choose uncommonness

November 6, 2009

Why do so many settle for commonness?
I was reading in 1 Samuel 8 this morning and came across this thought:
“We want a king over us. Then we will be like all the other nations, with a king to lead us and to go out before us and fight our battles.”
We want to be like everyone [...]

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MinistryNet video on strategies

November 3, 2009

Another MinistryNet video which focuses on some specific strategies.

Ministry Net Student Ministry Ideas from Dennis Strellman on Vimeo.

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Wilson Web 15 years

November 1, 2009

Ralph Wilson is a pioneer. We learned together, separated by 1500 miles. I was getting started in this thing we now call eMinistry or online ministry. I was launching Leadership University, Origins, stonewallrevisited.com (since discontinued), World Religions Index, Leadership University in Spanish and other sites. I was helping other organizations like Probe Ministries, Reasons to [...]

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MinistryNet Overview Video

October 27, 2009

Here is a composite overview of the MinistryNet conference, told by several who attended.

Ministry Net and VLM Integration from Dennis Strellman on Vimeo.

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MinistryNet 2009 Antalya is over

October 25, 2009

I watched the 166 MinistryNet participants leave on Saturday. 37 countries on 5 continents received back some highly motivated people with written strategic plans to implement specific steps to leverage internet communication tools in our win-build-send mission.
In an interview Friday, I was asked about this MinistryNet compared to previous ones in 2005 and 2007. I [...]

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